Helping Kids Deal With Anger Through Video Modeling

Anger and frustration can be a trigger for aggression in children with autism. It is up to us to help them learn how to cope with these feelings so they don’t hurt themselves or others. What is the best way to teach children how to cope with anger? One way is to model appropriate means of dealing with anger in real life situations. For example, talking in a calm voice, taking deep breaths, or walking away from the situation. Another good teaching tool is the use of social stories. By writing stories based on your child’s actual triggers and responses your tend to have better results. They can listen to and read the story multiple times, practice the skills during role play, and use the skill in natural situations.

In addition to modeling and social stories, people have also found success using video modeling. Videos can be very powerful tools because they are simple, engaging, and visual. Skill Building Buddies has created a whole host of videos to use with children. The one I watched today called “8 Ways to Handle Anger (without fighting)” is a 12 minute video which models how to cope with real-life situations. Check out the video and other videos they have to offer to use with your child or student. They are truly wonderful.

Skill Building Buddies – 8 Ways to Deal with Anger